The Ultimate Question: Homeschooling or "Normal" School?
I have experienced both homeschooling and public school, so I will try not to be biased. I was homeschooled all my life by my mom and started going to school for Grade 11.
"Homeschooling" is when a student is taught at home under the guidance of a parent; public school is when a student is taught in a school building under the guidance of teachers. Each side has its pros and cons, as it is with any debate but this one in particular has always been a heated one (second to Yanny or Laurel - I hear Yanny). Let's start with the pros.
PROS
Homeschooling
"Homeschooling" is when a student is taught at home under the guidance of a parent; public school is when a student is taught in a school building under the guidance of teachers. Each side has its pros and cons, as it is with any debate but this one in particular has always been a heated one (second to Yanny or Laurel - I hear Yanny). Let's start with the pros.
PROS
Homeschooling
- student can study at their own pace (especially children who are gifted academically or socially or have learning disabilities or other forms of disabilities)
- flexibility of time (student can take time off when needed and catch up later)
- vacationing is easy (can take time off to travel)
- learning can be incorporated in fun things such as travel and count as schoolwork
- working independently (learn time management)
- more time for other activities (hobbies)
- more time with family (closer family relations especially with siblings)
- cover more curriculum faster
- homework is incorporated in school hours (once school hours are done, its done)
Public School
- shy people are forced to interact and ask questions
- hone test taking skills
- discussion skills
- learn how to work under time pressure
- organizational skills
- learn about other ways of life (you interact with everybody)
- independence from family members
- appreciate other areas of life more (travelling, spending time with family, a home cooked meal)
CONS
Homeschooling
- gives an opportunity for retreat (hiding from the world or unwanted social interaction)
- lack of strict routine (can give way to time wasting)
- sheltering (especially in religious circles, can become intolerant of other ways of life)
- clique-ing is still there (if you are a part of a big homeschooled group and you attend activities, cliques will form and some kids will take it harder than others)
- social awkwardness (depends on type of family, lifestyle and individual personality, but is a possibility)
- seeing generally fewer people in a day (mostly your family and close friends)
Public School
- stress (fast-paced days can be stressful)
- homework is an after school suffering
- mean teachers (rare, but it happens)
- cliques (as mentioned before, people bunch up a lot in school)
- gossips, bullies, and jerks (depends on the school)
- group projects and presentations (shy peoples' nightmare but a good challenge)
- exams are extremely hyped up and can be mentally taxing
- early mornings (have to wake up early in the morning to get to school)
- takes out more time in the day
Both ways are very different and ideal in very different ways. If you're wondering which one to choose for your child, I would suggest analyzing your child to deduce what's best for them individually. For me, I was an "extrovert trapped in an introvert's body" and since I was homeschooled, I didn't have many opportunities where I was forced to socialize, especially less so having my older extroverted sister always there for me to lean on. I also was pretty unorganized and wasted lots of time procrastinating. Once I was sent to school, without my sister there, I was forced to socialize if I was to learn anything. Quite quickly I found that I always was an extrovert and was even able to talk to boys with considerable ease (something I could never do before). I also learned to manage my time and organize myself, otherwise I would get a bad grade for late or missing assignments. High school in specific is good, but I wouldn't say the same for primary schools. If you don't want your kid to come home swearing, homeschool them up until Grade 8 and send them to high school, at least then they will have some core values to hold on to.
I really hoped this helped! What was your experience in either of these? Let me know and thanks for reading! x
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